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Life’s Conflicting Don’ts

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Don’t decide when your angry
Close your mouth, don’t let the words out
Once spoken, you can’t take them back

Don’t promise when your happy
You’ll tend to forget and break someone’s heart
Just be happy but don’t get overexcited

Don’t always let your emotions guide you
Not all the times you are doing the right thing
Sometimes it is better to trust your mind

Don’t think so much, it’ll give you headache
Go with the flow and everything will be okay
But never forget to think twice before you act

Don’t say things you are not sure about
It is okay to accept and tell that you don’t know
Otherwise, it will cause troubles and misunderstandings

Don’t give ‘much’ attention to your critics
They give negative emotions and makes you pessimistic
When their words could help you grow, why not?

Don’t always agree to others, sometimes they are wrong
Don’t always disagree, sometimes they are right
When it is for the good then maybe it is right

Don’t blame others for your failures or mishaps
When in the very first place you have your own decision
It is for you to decide and plan your future

– jhoy

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Love Symbiosis

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Here is an excerpt about love in harmony:

Symbiosis is the big special love where two beings come together in perfect harmony. They become one, living together, changing together, staying together for all time. This is different from any other kind of relationship. Love like this does not happen often. In a world full of predation, disease, parasitism, mutualism, commensalism, and stoic, uncaring loneliness, misunderstandings are more common than total understanding. But when it does happen it changes the whole world.

When You Had the Chance to Say It

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Broken Heart

When you have told someone about anything, there is no turning back. All the words were already spoken and you can’t take it back.

What if those words have already resided in you for a very long. Those thoughts that have been lurkering in your head.

What if you know that they are hurtful, would you still pursue? Even if you know that it would hurt that someone, would you do it?

But what if it’s the only thing that has been holding you back from being you in front of him, would rather wear the mask? Isn’t it right to tell the truth and that honesty is the key to every relationship that you had and will had. May it be to your family, friend or partner.

Honesty is the key factor to solidify a relationship. But what if too much honesty could cause that solid foundation that you have protected for so long to stumble. Would you risk breaking it apart? And even if doesn’t break, doesn’t having a crack the same thing?

What would you do?

Tell him the truth and let your relationship fall or keep it inside you and be hurt forever?

Which would you choose?