Accusations and Excuses

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Accusations.

If you are doing the right thing, you don’t owe anyone an explanation.

Other people can gossip false accusations about you, for as long as you know the truth, who the hell cares about what they say.

Mediator.

Some will try to meddle and say that they will try to mediate and help, but in reality, they have already judged you and found you guilty of something they don’t have any true knowledge of the truth.

People who truly cares about you won’t put you under fire over frivolous things.

White flag.

If you always end up fighting with someone, there will come a day that you’ll get tired of never ending battle. An argument where you can never win,  and will never ever win no matter how much you try to explain your side.

Hands up. You’ve just had enough of the bickering.

Excuses.

Lots of it.

It’s as if you the only thing you need is to set an audio in repeat. It’s the same argument over and over and over again.

The same set of lines that you hear whenever an old subject is opened and you try to explain the reason why they are wrong.

They just won’t back down without the most ridiculous excuse they can come up with.

Exaggerations.

Little things that some people try to exaggerate causing fights.

Even if it is out of the subject, it always become the topic.

Self-pity. 

The emotional blackmail that someone throws at you.

It’s a guilt trip that drives many people insane and many relationships broken.

And when I said relationships, it’s not just the one a couple have but what you have with your family and friends.

Hurt, Strength and Patience.

You will never know how strong you are unless you have suffered so much pain and still be standing on your feet.

That painful feeling in your chest when you are trying to show you are not affected but deep inside you are pounded into million pieces while trying to swallow hurtful words and false accusations.

At the end you just continue what you are doing as if nothing happened.

Congratulations, you have one hell of patience and strength. A very rare gem of its kind.

Reflection.

The thing you do when you have finally calmed down and try to communicate with you inner peace.

Trying to weigh your options for the next things that you have to do.

Trying to contemplate for the right actions to face this battle and probably, to end this feud once and for all.

Peace.

At the end of the day, who doesn’t want to have one.

2 thoughts on “Accusations and Excuses

    Lennie Appelquist said:
    August 8, 2013 at 11:08 PM

    Awesome Jhoy! Very well said!

    jhOy imPeRiaL responded:
    August 9, 2013 at 3:17 AM

    thank you sir Len ^^,

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